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Mar 3, 2009 19:01:20 GMT -5
Post by SimSim on Mar 3, 2009 19:01:20 GMT -5
Grass is always greener, other's boobs are always better?
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Mar 3, 2009 19:10:16 GMT -5
Post by Lady Renae on Mar 3, 2009 19:10:16 GMT -5
Nope. When my boobs get small enough they no longer put bends in my skeletal structure, I'll be very happy with them. It really is a matter of damage.
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Mar 3, 2009 19:14:37 GMT -5
Post by SimSim on Mar 3, 2009 19:14:37 GMT -5
Yikes. Bone damage no good.
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Mar 3, 2009 19:18:17 GMT -5
Post by schizophonic on Mar 3, 2009 19:18:17 GMT -5
Grass is always greener, other's boobs are always better? LR has a decent point. Breasts that are too large do cause serious probs.
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Mar 3, 2009 19:22:38 GMT -5
Post by SimSim on Mar 3, 2009 19:22:38 GMT -5
I'm aware too large ones can cause damage. Was sorta of a continuation on the line of thought of the previous poster who commented that women with small breasts wanted larger ones and women with large breasts wanted small ones.
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Gender
Mar 3, 2009 20:16:16 GMT -5
Post by Oriet on Mar 3, 2009 20:16:16 GMT -5
I'm going with genderqueer. Mainly because I identify as a woman, but people usually think I'm a dyke, and I don't have enough balls to come out of the closet to more than a few people. Plus, I don't want to get SRS. Whether one decides to get SRS or not is somewhat irrelevant to their gender identity. I've known many transwomen who, for a variety of reasons, are non-op, and it doesn't detract from how they identify at all. A large amount of transmen don't get SRS because it isn't always needed, and because it is a trickier surgery with more complications and isn't as well researched. For this poll I also don't care if you've come out of the closet at all, as I know it's not always an option if one wants to get through day to day life and I don't want people to be restrained by societal bonds. These forums are luckily a place where a person can fully be themselves, and is actually part of what helped me early in transition (more than the forum specifically for transfolk I had been going to at the time even).
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Mar 3, 2009 20:31:31 GMT -5
Post by rhi on Mar 3, 2009 20:31:31 GMT -5
I'm female, and although I curse it sometimes, that has a lot more to do with the way society views and treats me than how I feel myself. Like when I walk into a meeting full of men and none of them can start until I have a chair, just because I'm a girl. Fuck that, we have work to do. Also, I'm less sympathetic and touchy-feely than I'm supposed to be. Does this make me androgyne? I have no idea. I hate using labels because there's always someone who disagrees with my definition of them. Call me whatever YOU think I am. Or just call me Rhi. That might work.
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Mar 3, 2009 20:52:13 GMT -5
Post by stormwarden on Mar 3, 2009 20:52:13 GMT -5
Most definitely straight male.
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Mar 3, 2009 21:25:16 GMT -5
Post by schizophonic on Mar 3, 2009 21:25:16 GMT -5
I'm aware too large ones can cause damage. Was sorta of a continuation on the line of thought of the previous poster who commented that women with small breasts wanted larger ones and women with large breasts wanted small ones. That was me, too. I was just saying. The thought did occur to me, I just didn't want to get smacked down for making the crack.
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Mar 3, 2009 21:31:44 GMT -5
Post by schizophonic on Mar 3, 2009 21:31:44 GMT -5
Whether one decides to get SRS or not is somewhat irrelevant to their gender identity. I've known many transwomen who, for a variety of reasons, are non-op, and it doesn't detract from how they identify at all. A large amount of transmen don't get SRS because it isn't always needed, and because it is a trickier surgery with more complications and isn't as well researched. For this poll I also don't care if you've come out of the closet at all, as I know it's not always an option if one wants to get through day to day life and I don't want people to be restrained by societal bonds. These forums are luckily a place where a person can fully be themselves, and is actually part of what helped me early in transition (more than the forum specifically for transfolk I had been going to at the time even). Transmen also have a lot fewer options in terms of bottom surgery, and few are truly satisfactory. So there's a lot of risk for a lot less reward. I know a couple, including one IRL, who have opted to not get surgery solely for that reason. It's just easier to make a vagina out of existing materials than a penis. It's a lot easier to be "out" on the net, I agree. It can also be quite helpful. Over the last couple of years, I've developed a support net of friends on the net, which is helping me now that I'm trying to actually come out and deal with it. Doesn't make it easy, but it sure makes it easier.
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Mar 3, 2009 21:33:22 GMT -5
Post by Vene on Mar 3, 2009 21:33:22 GMT -5
Also, I'm less sympathetic and touchy-feely than I'm supposed to be. Does this make me androgyne? I have no idea. Of course it doesn't make you androgyne. When I was a little kid I had the touchy-feely part of me repressed because 'boys aren't supposed to be like that.' I've started to go the other direction recently. It helped that I started spending time with touchy-feely people.
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Mar 3, 2009 21:33:25 GMT -5
Post by SimSim on Mar 3, 2009 21:33:25 GMT -5
I'm aware too large ones can cause damage. Was sorta of a continuation on the line of thought of the previous poster who commented that women with small breasts wanted larger ones and women with large breasts wanted small ones. That was me, too. I was just saying. The thought did occur to me, I just didn't want to get smacked down for making the crack. Haha, I should pay more attention to who posted what. And thanks for smacking me down for continuing the same joke you made.
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Mar 3, 2009 21:43:59 GMT -5
Post by schizophonic on Mar 3, 2009 21:43:59 GMT -5
Always happy to set you up for the fall. Nah...Kidding.
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Mar 4, 2009 3:10:55 GMT -5
Post by Redhunter on Mar 4, 2009 3:10:55 GMT -5
Schizo: making crack is illegal.
LR: When we colonize the moon we could maybe send the big-breasted girls there as there is less gravity?
Mmmm... Boobs in zero gravity...*drools*
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Mar 4, 2009 3:16:16 GMT -5
Post by Lady Renae on Mar 4, 2009 3:16:16 GMT -5
Hmm... that could help if it weren't for the fact that the low gravity would also contribute to the decline in bone density, thus failing to help the problem at all.
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