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Post by Tiger on Feb 8, 2010 21:57:43 GMT -5
Why is sex worse than alcohol?
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Post by darthtoxic on Feb 8, 2010 21:59:24 GMT -5
Sex in itself isn't worse than alcohol, but fucking everything in sight (which this girl appears to be doing, and which the majority of teenagers I knew in high school did) is another story.
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Post by Tiger on Feb 8, 2010 22:39:38 GMT -5
There's, like, 10 guys on the list and she hasn't even done all of them. And I'm still curious as to why promiscuity is inherently negative. It can have pretty big repercussions if you're an idiot, sure, but I don't see why it's deserving of scorn.
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Post by HarleyThomas1002 on Feb 8, 2010 22:47:48 GMT -5
Because she's a woman. If it were a guy there would be no problem.
It's been this way for years.
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Post by RavynousHunter on Feb 8, 2010 22:51:14 GMT -5
Someone give this "Chris" guy a fucking medal. If you are stupid enough to write down a list of the guys you are fucking, then you are stupid enough to live it down if it gets out. Hell, even if she hadn't, the guys would've said something eventually. Most teen guys are real braggarts when it comes to that kinda shit. Extra points if the guys come after her because she had pulled the old "you're the only one for me" line on them. They'd rip her apart like a horde of zombies.
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Post by davedan on Feb 8, 2010 23:16:02 GMT -5
I'm torn between feeling sad for the girl and finding it hilarious. The fact is she shouldn't be made to feel bad for wanting different guys when she is young and carefree. It didn't sound like any of the guys was doing anything more than having fun either. She shouldn't be pilloried for being promiscous. What the fuck is that anyway?
But recording all that in a list. Hilarious.
PS what's the bet that guy now has his haircut?
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Post by Thejebusfire on Feb 8, 2010 23:37:57 GMT -5
If you're going to be a a whore, then don't write that shit down.
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Post by chad sexington on Feb 9, 2010 3:15:24 GMT -5
She wrecks his social life for a couple months, he wrecks hers for life.Katie's potential future employers will see that list when they look her up 10 years from now. And 20 years from now, and 30 years from now...She will never live this down. I call that disproportionate. On the other hand, if she's carrying on with all these guys at the same time, there's a fair chance she's already doing things that could come back to bite her in ten, twenty years.
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Post by Mantorok on Feb 9, 2010 4:16:06 GMT -5
Because she's a woman. If it were a guy there would be no problem. It's been this way for years. If it was a guy, I'd doubt there would be a written list in the first place.
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Post by HarleyThomas1002 on Feb 10, 2010 17:34:18 GMT -5
True, but I was refering to the multiple partners bit.
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Post by The_L on Feb 10, 2010 20:43:46 GMT -5
She wrecks his social life for a couple months, he wrecks hers for life.Katie's potential future employers will see that list when they look her up 10 years from now. And 20 years from now, and 30 years from now...She will never live this down. I call that disproportionate. On the other hand, if she's carrying on with all these guys at the same time, there's a fair chance she's already doing things that could come back to bite her in ten, twenty years. Depends. A lot of them are like the narrator of "Volvo Driving Soccer Mom"--skanky, rebellious teens turned prudish conservatives. Fundie Aunt is a case in point (minus the skank part, but still pretty bad).
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Post by szaleniec on Feb 11, 2010 8:48:36 GMT -5
I'm inclined to agree with the title the lad gave the entry. Serves the self-righteous bitch right.
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Post by captainhooker on Feb 11, 2010 9:46:54 GMT -5
There's, like, 10 guys on the list and she hasn't even done all of them. And I'm still curious as to why promiscuity is inherently negative. It can have pretty big repercussions if you're an idiot, sure, but I don't see why it's deserving of scorn. It'd be hard to judge not knowing the girl, tbh. If she's fucking around with all these guys because she's adventurous and carefree and is old enough to understand and deal with the (deserved or not) consequences, then fine. If she's a naive and weak minded little girl for whom this list is a trophy of all the attention she got as a result of her dysfunctional daddy issues, then it's another story. Hard to tell really. She does reveal a fairly passive state of mind: "I'll do anything he wants," but I could just be reading too much into it. The healthiness of one's sexual habits has nothing at all to do with the gender of the person - it's the motivation and state of mind of the participant that tells us whether this person is behaving responsibly or not, and that is something that we can never really know.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Feb 11, 2010 11:56:07 GMT -5
I'm so torn. On the one hand, so fucking what if she's bonking/fantasizing about bonking a bunch of guys? Like it's already been said, too, this can really come back to bite her, HARD.
On the other, she's obviously a bit too immature to be bonking a bunch of guys, and to be stupid enough to write it all down? LOL. Young one, you have much to learn.
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Post by Distind on Feb 11, 2010 12:15:56 GMT -5
There's, like, 10 guys on the list and she hasn't even done all of them. And I'm still curious as to why promiscuity is inherently negative. It can have pretty big repercussions if you're an idiot, sure, but I don't see why it's deserving of scorn. Because pretty much. This is the same culture that is more terrified of a tit on TV than the fucking Saw snuff films. But I'd have to say, generally speaking drinking can screw you up or make you look like an idiot. Some exceptions here, but they're rather rare. Sleeping around, specifically while not actually telling any of those you're doing it with about it, can cause a sudden rash of STDs in short order. That, and children, there are few worse consequences I'm aware of than children. Though from what I've seen the two go hand in hand most of the time, so I'm a self righteous tea totaler when it comes up. Or at least I've been accused of it, but when someone asks what I think and I tell them, I don't see where the first bit comes in.
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