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Post by incognito on Apr 20, 2009 23:20:17 GMT -5
If i had to use a term, it would be closet bi. Im not into relationships though. I am a virgin, and will be that way for a while probably. (i have more important things to worry about)
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HoJuSimpson
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A woman is like a beer
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Post by HoJuSimpson on Apr 20, 2009 23:37:01 GMT -5
Lesbian, still a bit closeted off-line. I am thankful that my immediate family is not homophobic in the least (minus the unintentionally hurtful comments they may say sometimes,) but...I don't know, just taking my time in telling them.
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Post by alwimo on Apr 20, 2009 23:57:41 GMT -5
Another bi. It's interesting there's so many of us here!
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 21, 2009 1:29:50 GMT -5
Add another one to the bi list.
As for closetisation, that is... different. I reject ideologically the concept of formally telling people that I'm bi unless they ask, simply because it shouldn't make a difference to how they see me. But I also get the feeling that I might just be using that as an excuse not to tell my immediate family since none of them, by dint of not having asked, know. Then again, if I do tell them I think the most likely reaction will be, "What? You mean you AREN'T full gay?"
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qjane
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Post by qjane on Apr 21, 2009 1:29:54 GMT -5
Just plain ol' les. Nice to see so many other LGBTers here.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Apr 21, 2009 1:42:15 GMT -5
Add another one to the bi list. As for closetisation, that is... different. I reject ideologically the concept of formally telling people that I'm bi unless they ask, simply because it shouldn't make a difference to how they see me. But I also get the feeling that I might just be using that as an excuse not to tell my immediate family since none of them, by dint of not having asked, know. Then again, if I do tell them I think the most likely reaction will be, "What? You mean you AREN'T full gay?" You aren't fully gay until you're zestfully gay? =3
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Post by Deimos on Apr 21, 2009 1:45:29 GMT -5
Gay. No relationship, i despise everything
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 21, 2009 1:47:14 GMT -5
Gay. No relationship, i despise everything That would make such an awesome lonely hearts column ad....
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Post by Deimos on Apr 21, 2009 1:56:00 GMT -5
Gay. No relationship, i despise everything That would make such an awesome lonely hearts column ad.... Whats a what what?
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 21, 2009 1:59:00 GMT -5
That would make such an awesome lonely hearts column ad.... Whats a what what? You know, lonely hearts ads, in newspapers, normally go "male 75, smoker, commitment issues, likes sex and football. WLTM 16-18 y/o girl for fun times. Must be non-smoker." But I think "Gay. No relationship. I despise everything" would be so much more awesome than that
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Post by Deimos on Apr 21, 2009 2:24:32 GMT -5
We just have obituaries, beers ads and drunk footballers in our newspapers. oh and stuff relating to beer
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Post by alwimo on Apr 21, 2009 2:26:58 GMT -5
We have personal ads too. In the classifieds section.
Although I've only noticed them in local newspapers, they'd probably be in the bigger ones too.
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Post by Magnizeal on Apr 21, 2009 2:55:44 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me.
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Post by Deimos on Apr 21, 2009 3:27:53 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. that... is quite possible the strangest thing I have ever heard
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Post by ironbite on Apr 21, 2009 3:31:38 GMT -5
I guess you could say I'm straight. But in reality...I am pan.
Ironbite-a countless number of past lives and you really have to have the full spectrum.
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