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Post by clockworkgirl21 on Apr 25, 2009 14:09:22 GMT -5
I find both men and women sexually attractive, but in terms of relationships, I'm only interested in women.
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Post by Chi Shiro on Apr 25, 2009 20:26:06 GMT -5
And we wonder why the raptards think we're the headquarters for "Out and Proud Monthly" As for all that: I'm a divorced bisexual who isn't really looking because my (very) gay ex-husband keeps trying to convince me we need to get remarried. "but...you're gay." "Yeah, but I love you enough that it doesn't matter." Meh, men. Can't live with 'em...can't live without 'em 40% of the time.
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Post by Vene on Apr 25, 2009 20:30:31 GMT -5
And we wonder why the raptards think we're the headquarters for "Out and Proud Monthly" You mean we're not?
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Post by Jebediah on Apr 25, 2009 20:32:16 GMT -5
As for all that: I'm a divorced bisexual who isn't really looking because my (very) gay ex-husband keeps trying to convince me we need to get remarried. "but...you're gay." "Yeah, but I love you enough that it doesn't matter." A good friend of my family is gay, and his (now ex-) wife knew, but she decided to marry him anyway. She was convinced she could change him, and he just really wanted to children. Unfortunately for her, he is still gay and they are divorced. But they did have the kid they wanted.
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Post by schizophonic on Apr 25, 2009 20:33:11 GMT -5
And we wonder why the raptards think we're the headquarters for "Out and Proud Monthly" I only wonder why they think it's a bad thing. ;D Sorry, had to. Mwahahahahah!
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Post by Chi Shiro on Apr 25, 2009 20:45:57 GMT -5
As for all that: I'm a divorced bisexual who isn't really looking because my (very) gay ex-husband keeps trying to convince me we need to get remarried. "but...you're gay." "Yeah, but I love you enough that it doesn't matter." A good friend of my family is gay, and his (now ex-) wife knew, but she decided to marry him anyway. She was convinced she could change him, and he just really wanted to children. Unfortunately for her, he is still gay and they are divorced. But they did have the kid they wanted. I can honestly say it was a love thing for him. So, I'm lucky in that aspect. He knew the chances of me having children were slim because of polycystic ovaries. He's convinced to this day that falling for a woman, to the point he doesn't want to live without her, means we're soul mates. I keep telling him he needs to date because a relationship with no physical attraction on his part isn't fair to either one of us... thus the divorce I initiated. He keeps saying I'm not being fair to him or our little miracles... thus the almost funny attempts at a reconcilliation on his part. I'm doing the "sharing too much" thing he complains about, again, aren't I?
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Post by Yahweh on Apr 25, 2009 22:13:17 GMT -5
And we wonder why the raptards think we're the headquarters for "Out and Proud Monthly" Fun FYI: For a short time, I had taglined FSTDT with the quote "Number one choice of atheists and homosexuals".
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Post by Green-Eyed Lilo on Apr 25, 2009 22:45:51 GMT -5
And we wonder why the raptards think we're the headquarters for "Out and Proud Monthly" Fun FYI: For a short time, I had taglined FSTDT with the quote "Number one choice of atheists and homosexuals". But...but...aren't those pretty much the same thing?!?!
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Post by schizophonic on Apr 25, 2009 23:04:35 GMT -5
In the fundie thesaurus, when you look up atheist, it lists both homosexual and communist.
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Post by Paradox on Apr 25, 2009 23:09:20 GMT -5
Cambot! (You're on!) Gypsy! (Oh my stars!) Tom Servo! (Check me out.) Croooooooow (I'm different!)
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Fuck, wrong rollcall.
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Post by perv on Apr 25, 2009 23:13:02 GMT -5
Fun FYI: For a short time, I had taglined FSTDT with the quote "Number one choice of atheists and homosexuals". But...but...aren't those pretty much the same thing?!?! No, I'm straight.
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Post by Nutcase on Apr 26, 2009 0:11:10 GMT -5
I’ve always felt like a male trapped in the body of a female. I don’t mean that as a flippant statement, either; I actually feel like that. And yet, though I seriously considered sex reassignment surgery, I never felt the need to pursue it with vigor. Until I met my spouse, I was disconnected enough from my sexuality that I didn’t label myself as transgendered. In fact, my love of lesbian porn had me believing I was a full-on homosexual.
It turned out, once I found a great partner – a heterosexual man, thus born – that it no longer seemed important which gender I claimed as my own. He understood about the whole “phantom penis” thing, and about my fluid mixture of traditionally masculine and feminine traits. He accepted me anyway, and encouraged my explorations, Henceforth I’ve identified as an androgyne.
And had my husband approached me in the guise of a woman, or as another person like myself, I’d still have loved him, and I’d still have married him – or fought for the right to do so.
I didn’t marry him to stay in the closet; I simply love him – his personality, his kindness, his intelligence. To me he was, and is, the total package. We’ve been together nearly five years.
There was a fairly brief period when I was attracted to fundyism because I figured I could put myself in the religious woman-box and perhaps find a measure of gender-fixity there – some kind of happiness through embracing the sex I was born.
Hubby put the smack down on that when he saw how my clumsy attempts at “Biblical Womanhood” were turning only into guilt for me.
I found, then, that a full acceptance of myself could only be achieved by recognizing I was different than average, but there was no need to change. I realized I was neither male nor female, or maybe I was both, and there was nothing wrong with this.
I hope all of you still searching find what I’ve found. For the longest time, thanks to my sexual ambiguity, I remained a virgin by choice. That changed only when I was 25, when I met the man who is now my husband.
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Post by Napoleon the Clown on Apr 26, 2009 1:32:25 GMT -5
I'm gonna sticky this.
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Post by ironbite on Apr 26, 2009 1:39:29 GMT -5
Cambot! (You're on!) Gypsy! (Oh my stars!) Tom Servo! (Check me out.) Croooooooow (I'm different!) ... Fuck, wrong rollcall. Hey Paradox, I've always wondered this and seeing as how you too watched the show... Ironbite-how does He(Joel or Mike) eat and breath?
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Post by Angel on Apr 26, 2009 2:25:00 GMT -5
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