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Post by VirtualStranger on Jul 14, 2011 3:30:03 GMT -5
I'm you're average cisgendered, heterosexual white male, but for some odd reason that I can't quite figure out, sometimes I like to imagine myself as a lesbian in dreams and such. As an example, every time I play a customizable character in a video game, my primary character is always a lesbian.
And it has nothing to do with the whole "girl on girl" thing, either. I think lesbian couples just set off my "daaawwwww" meter way more than they probably should.
So... yeah. I'm a bit weird.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Jul 14, 2011 16:10:59 GMT -5
Obviously this means you have repressed cuddle and boobie urges that need to be brought out. With therapy, that is. Yes...'therapy'. Lots and lots of 'therapy'.
When can I schedule you in for?
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Post by itachirumon on Jul 14, 2011 16:17:08 GMT -5
Cuddle urges... pretty much my go-to response for why I like cute things. The D'awww is strong with this one ._.
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Post by VirtualStranger on Jul 15, 2011 19:01:49 GMT -5
Obviously this means you have repressed cuddle and boobie urges that need to be brought out. YES PLEASE. Preferably at the same time? Cuddles and boobies happen to go great with each other. And I agree with the consensus on the last page. Whenever I happen to feel attracted to someone, "I'd hit that" isn't usually the first thing on my mind. Sexual attraction for me usually manifests as an intense desire to cuddle that person. Maybe it's because I view sex within a romantic relationship as something similar to a "gift" that you "give" to someone, not something that you just "get". How about some attention from a woman that is around my age and isn't a member of my immediate family. I'm the kind of person who would be perfectly fine with living their entire life without a single friend, (and so far I've managed to do just that) but what I really want is one person that I can actually bring myself to care about. I feel like I have this excess store of affection that's just begging me to pour it out onto someone. Cuddle urges... pretty much my go-to response for why I like cute things. The D'awww is strong with this one ._. I think this is relevant to the previous conversation:
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Post by ironbite on Jul 15, 2011 19:21:02 GMT -5
But they're not naked.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Jul 15, 2011 19:34:08 GMT -5
VS: I'm kinda the same way (re: first reaction = "CUDDLE TIEM!"), though later it may add the urge to get into his/her/zir pants. So yes, first the squees, then the "ME GUSTA" face.
Of course, finding out more about the person can easily turn off any developing urges to boink as well as rid me of the urge to cuddle.
god I hope Vartiter will cuddle without thinking I'm weird
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Post by RiJayden on Aug 6, 2011 13:59:53 GMT -5
Hello everyone. I am a pan-romantic genderqueer (I only say I'm female because of my over-sized ta-tas ) I'm out of the closet and I'm quite active in promoting LGBT rights. Up untill 6 years ago, I hated myself for who I was, and even joined an ultra fundie church, (where the females *had* to wear uber long skirts ) just to try to 'correct the problem'. While in college, I discovered Paganism, and found out that not everyone hated my for who I was. I learned to be proud of who I am, and six years later, I am happier, however single.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Aug 6, 2011 17:03:50 GMT -5
Why, hello there, Ri~ ;D
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RiJayden
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Post by RiJayden on Aug 6, 2011 21:44:20 GMT -5
Hay, Deadpan. Love the sig, btw.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Aug 6, 2011 22:12:19 GMT -5
Why thank you. I rather like yours, too; I've been searching everywhere for a copy of The Agenda, but no one seems to know where to find it.
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RiJayden
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Post by RiJayden on Aug 6, 2011 22:17:02 GMT -5
It's probably up Ted Haggard's ass.
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Post by Mlle Antéchrist on Aug 6, 2011 22:17:06 GMT -5
Hello everyone. I am a pan-romantic genderqueer (I only say I'm female because of my over-sized ta-tas ) I'm out of the closet and I'm quite active in promoting LGBT rights. Up untill 6 years ago, I hated myself for who I was, and even joined an ultra fundie church, (where the females *had* to wear uber long skirts ) just to try to 'correct the problem'. While in college, I discovered Paganism, and found out that not everyone hated my for who I was. I learned to be proud of who I am, and six years later, I am happier, however single. Yay for learning to love yourself
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Post by Vene on Aug 6, 2011 22:34:22 GMT -5
Why thank you. I rather like yours, too; I've been searching everywhere for a copy of The Agenda, but no one seems to know where to find it. You can't find it? It's over here.
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Post by Shane for Wax on Aug 7, 2011 1:44:41 GMT -5
Why thank you. I rather like yours, too; I've been searching everywhere for a copy of The Agenda, but no one seems to know where to find it. You can't find it? It's over here.That seems like a modified fake 'Zioinist agenda' neo-nazis throw up as proof of such 'Zionist conspiracies'. I now have the case of the giggles.
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on Aug 10, 2011 22:59:21 GMT -5
Har de har, Vene. XD I actually hadn't ever seen that before, though...
Okay, I need some advice from SOMEone, 'cause I have no idea what to say. My roommate's SO has come out as a trans-man after years of protesting that zie could never be a trans-man (IOW, zie was just a butch lesbian, that's all) and is preparing to start transitioning. My roommate is NOT happy about it; she loves him, but she's afraid of how their relationship will change due both his embracing his transosity and her self-identifying as a lesbian. She's pretty much said that she doesn't want a boyfriend, period, and that she wants to be with him but she's afraid that he'll be right in the middle of transitioning and she won't be able to 'take it' anymore.
I have no idea what to say. Gender and sex are big issues for her, but not for me, and I'm not quite able to see it from her point of view. So yeah, I need some help here. I'm trying to be a supportive friend, and I *kinda* understand her POV of "he wants to stop lying to himself, but he needs to understand that I can't lie to myself", but it just seems...selfish to me. She's in love with the guy, she got into massive fights with her mother over the guy, but the thought of his becoming a "real guy" instead of being a butch lesbian scares her way worse than anything else. And I just don't know what to do.
HALP ME.
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