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Post by cv on Apr 1, 2009 7:46:18 GMT -5
I'd say you're doing it wrong. Should've looked like this before you clicked "Go": Of course, "mynick" should be whatever you want to call yourself. derpderpderp! thank youuuu!
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Post by cv on Apr 1, 2009 8:04:33 GMT -5
*lol forever* Nikki just banned me from chat because I offended her sensibilities by getting on her nerves. fucking please.
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Post by nikkia on Apr 1, 2009 9:59:33 GMT -5
*lol forever* Nikki just banned me from chat because I offended her sensibilities by getting on her nerves. fucking please. Being a whiney bitch when people tell you that being offensive to transgendered people on the channel might end up getting you banned counts as 'fucking with'. I'm sure had you done the same to Renae or Distind, you would likewise have earnt a short ban too. Feel free to come back, don't feel free to bring your attitude with you, however.
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Post by cv on Apr 1, 2009 10:20:59 GMT -5
*lol forever* Nikki just banned me from chat because I offended her sensibilities by getting on her nerves. fucking please. Being a whiney bitch when people tell you that being offensive to transgendered people on the channel might end up getting you banned counts as 'fucking with'. I'm sure had you done the same to Renae or Distind, you would likewise have earnt a short ban too. Feel free to come back, don't feel free to bring your attitude with you, however. dude, I have nothing against you, but the fact remains that you got offended when no one else did. you banned me for personal reasons, not mod reasons. I don't care what your personal opinion of me is, I was asking questions and being facetious and you took that personally when it had nothing at all to do with you. believe me, I'm not here to cause wank or to offend people, but I'm not going to cringe in the corner for fear of your personal judgement. just, no. I'm glad to ignore you if you'll return the favor.
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Post by crazalus on Apr 1, 2009 10:46:34 GMT -5
dude, I have nothing against you, but the fact remains that you got offended when no one else did. you banned me for personal reasons, not mod reasons. Lessee... you managed to imply (intentionally or not) that a certain TS member was Gay. You also gave the impression that you don't care if you're offensive. You classed said certain member as a Gay Male... which as I understand it, is one of the most offensive things you can do with M-F TS people... Now, stopping there and not pissing off anyone who you've offended at that point would have been a good idea... but taking a Mod to task for using a small amount of expletives and suggesting that they are the ovensive one for that, then suggesting they need to get their ego looked at... not so much a good idea. Hence the short time-out. Oh, but it did! Whether you knew it or not, what you were saying wasn't just going to resonate with one person... I can name at least 2 other people who your "assumptions" could have been offending. Hell, I can guarantee that one of them was offended. Here's a question for you... do you know just how many people in the IRC are TS? Yet you DID manage to offend people, moan when warned that you were, then managed to piss off the Mod who warned you... Following it up with this... making it all out to be Nikki getting butt-hurt over your innocent words is also offensive. If you're really not here to offend people, you're doing it wrong! Yeah... Mods can't do that, or else they can't do their job. How about you try saying sorry for offending people and pissing off the Mod?
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Post by cv on Apr 1, 2009 10:55:18 GMT -5
dude, I have nothing against you, but the fact remains that you got offended when no one else did. you banned me for personal reasons, not mod reasons. Lessee... you managed to imply (intentionally or not) that a certain TS member was Gay. You also gave the impression that you don't care if you're offensive. You classed said certain member as a Gay Male... which as I understand it, is one of the most offensive things you can do with M-F TS people... Now, stopping there and not pissing off anyone who you've offended at that point would have been a good idea... but taking a Mod to task for using a small amount of expletives and suggesting that they are the ovensive one for that, then suggesting they need to get their ego looked at... not so much a good idea. Hence the short time-out. Oh, but it did! Whether you knew it or not, what you were saying wasn't just going to resonate with one person... I can name at least 2 other people who your "assumptions" could have been offending. Hell, I can guarantee that one of them was offended. Here's a question for you... do you know just how many people in the IRC are TS? Yet you DID manage to offend people, moan when warned that you were, then managed to piss off the Mod who warned you... Following it up with this... making it all out to be Nikki getting butt-hurt over your innocent words is also offensive. If you're really not here to offend people, you're doing it wrong! Yeah... Mods can't do that, or else they can't so their job. How about you try saying sorry for offending people and pissing off the Mod? christ on a crutch. you know, I really don't care what gender people are, I care what kind of person they are. I'm sorry that my, _yes_ facetious, comments were taken so seriously. I'm sorry that people (whoever they may be) might have been offended. but the reaction you and nikki have seems to imply that it was intentional. I won't be taken to task for something I did not do. and what the hell is wrong with asking if someone is gay? I'm not an intimate member of the trans community, and my understanding is certainly lacking, but how the hell are people supposed to learn if they don't ask questions? nah, fuck it...I'm not that interested anymore.
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Post by Lady Renae on Apr 1, 2009 11:12:27 GMT -5
Hi. IRC Founder/Admin here. If you have a disagreement with an OP decision, please don't fight about it here. Complaints about the OPs are to be taken first to the OP in question, and then to me if you still see a problem. Public griping and insistence that you couldn't possibly have done anything wrong will not earn you favor. Publicly accusing an OP of extreme bias in moderation is of an exceptional disservice to you. Please do not be so foolish again.
If you still have a concern about the way NikkiA handled herself in the IRC, please contact me via PM, e-mail, or AIM. Be ready to defend your claims with evidence, and provide a synopsis of what occurred from your perspective. I will be looking at both sides of the disagreement before making my decision.
If you truly do not care anymore, obviously you have no need to contact me. If that is the case, I similarly request that this conversation in the thread be considered over. No more posts on it, please. Take it to PM if you feel it necessary to continue conversation.
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Post by Lady Renae on Apr 2, 2009 0:09:36 GMT -5
ANNOUNCEMENT!
If netsplit happens, BE PATIENT. You WILL be reconnected to the rest of the chat within a short period (usually inside three minutes, five at the most), and if you really feel angry about it, there is normally an announcement after the split that provides you with the name of what is most likely the responsible party or at the very least someone you can bit to/about.
Thank you.
EDIT: Apparently you occasionally get a succession of people to bitch at/about. O.o
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Post by devilschaplain2 on Jun 1, 2009 20:06:58 GMT -5
Bah, my computer freezes whenever I try to log on. Not a problem with the chatroom thingy, just my computer. No big deal, I still have the forums.
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Post by Lady Renae on Jun 2, 2009 16:00:58 GMT -5
Awwwww... we even nicknamed you! *sad*
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Post by Mira on Jun 7, 2009 23:51:13 GMT -5
Goddammit, real life is severely cutting into IRC time. I am sure you are all devastated by my absence, but as a disgraced, distant relative of mine once said, "I shall return."
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Post by Lady Renae on Jun 8, 2009 22:57:31 GMT -5
I am unable to IRC for about a week. My laptop's power cord became a fire hazard, so since I have to use Colleen's lappy, I cannot IRC. Bleh. *pout*
I.. I shall miss you all! *sob!*
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Post by Mira on Jun 8, 2009 23:08:24 GMT -5
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Post by Mantorok on Jul 5, 2009 0:42:34 GMT -5
I'm surprised no-one beat me to this. There's a much easier way to access the IRC now: qchat.rizon.net/
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Post by Lady Renae on Jul 8, 2009 16:10:51 GMT -5
New toy??? YAY!!! The moment I have enough moments, I shall investigate and create a walkthrough for chat access via this new venue.
*gives Mantorok hugs*
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