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Post by xaria on Apr 21, 2009 3:44:39 GMT -5
lesbian and trans (though i really wish i wasnt the second one)
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Post by Magnizeal on Apr 21, 2009 3:44:56 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. that... is quite possible the strangest thing I have ever heard Now imagine LIVING it. You see why I try to make things easy on people. >.> ^^
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Post by xaria on Apr 21, 2009 3:51:37 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. sounds awesome
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Post by alwimo on Apr 21, 2009 4:01:23 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. Yeah, I'm pansexual too but identify as bi. And I think about gender in a genderqueer way. I'm not genderqueer myself, though. And I hope for the best with the popularisation of gender-neutral pronouns in English. Gender binaries ftl.
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Post by ozznova on Apr 21, 2009 4:40:29 GMT -5
sort of lesbian, sort of trans, more androgynous and asexual for the most part
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Post by schizophonic on Apr 21, 2009 8:05:12 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. That. Is. AWESOME.
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Post by Vypernight on Apr 21, 2009 8:22:21 GMT -5
Straight, though I feel whatever people do on their own is their business. If they want to screw, get married, have kids, I'm all for it. It's just not for me.
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Post by Madame Scarlet on Apr 21, 2009 9:19:31 GMT -5
Bisexual here, but I haven't really bothered telling anybody in real life. I'm still not sure where I am on the Kinsey scale because I haven't had sex with any girls, and I've learned from experience that what I think would be hot and what I actually enjoy sexually can be quite different.
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Post by erictheblue on Apr 21, 2009 9:55:43 GMT -5
Female-to-male trans and (gods, I can't believe I am about to write this) bi. I've been on testosterone for 2.5 years and pass as male. However, I have not yet changed my name and still use my birth name at work. (Everywhere else I use Erik.)
I was out as a lesbian for about 10 years before starting transition, which is why I made the joke about saying I'm bi. However, T seems to do weird things to sexuality, as I'm not the only FtM I know who has mentioned a change in attraction since starting it. I can't see myself settling down with a man, but they are useful to take the edge off once in a while.
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 21, 2009 10:27:16 GMT -5
Pansexual, in that if it's able to consent and we're mutually willing, I'll give it a go. Functionally, this means bisexual, but I keep my options open. Genderqueer, I like going out more femme in summer, and more masculine in winter... but I very often have female clothing with my male, and vice versa, so there's an element of genderfuck in there too. AND Female-to-intersex transsexual... I'd love a smallish dick, keep my vagina, and lose 90% of my boobs. (Well, maybe less than 90%, basically whatever will drop me to A.) Tend to go by 'he' because 'zie' isn't established well enough and Oriet keeps forgetting it. >.> And I forget to remind her. So, that's me. Yeah, I'm pansexual too but identify as bi. And I think about gender in a genderqueer way. I'm not genderqueer myself, though. And I hope for the best with the popularisation of gender-neutral pronouns in English. Gender binaries ftl. Gender neutral pronouns? If I had my way and Chinese was the de facto lingua franca then we'd have them already.
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Post by mice34 on Apr 21, 2009 11:01:38 GMT -5
Lesbian...reporting for duty? or not.
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Post by Armand Tanzarian on Apr 21, 2009 11:12:10 GMT -5
Yeah, I'm pansexual too but identify as bi. And I think about gender in a genderqueer way. I'm not genderqueer myself, though. And I hope for the best with the popularisation of gender-neutral pronouns in English. Gender binaries ftl. Gender neutral pronouns? If I had my way and Chinese was the de facto lingua franca then we'd have them already. Chinese pronouns are not ENTIRELY gender neutral. Just not popular or widely used.
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 21, 2009 11:15:26 GMT -5
Gender neutral pronouns? If I had my way and Chinese was the de facto lingua franca then we'd have them already. Chinese pronouns are not ENTIRELY gender neutral. Just not popular or widely used. Well they're certainly better than Thai pronouns. Gender specific first person pronouns are just a really bad idea.
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Post by maanantai on Apr 21, 2009 11:34:28 GMT -5
Mostly something between bi and hetero. I don't have too much experience on women, but I'm not planning to get more either since I'm married. One can only dream ; )
And happily having language with neutral pronouns as mother tongue (and actually I had trouble understanding as a kid WHY there are separate pronouns in other languages, not that I'd understand it better now...)
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Post by Angel on Apr 21, 2009 11:44:51 GMT -5
I refuse to label myself, but I'm definately not straight. My sexuality is quite fluid and is more based on interpersonal relationships and romantic attraction than the sex appeal of someone's body.
I am not out to the vast majority of people. I never lie about my sexuality but people tend to make assumptions, like straight is the default. I have very occasionally been taken as a lesbian by people with slightly more attuned gaydar, but they are still a fair way off the mark.
I just don't see gender as a very important thing. On the inside I guess I feel androynous, but I have no desire to transition to another gender, simply because my femaleness is not central enough to my own identity to bother me that it doesn't quite match what I feel inside.
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