Post by Nutcase on May 9, 2009 23:57:36 GMT -5
I found a silly piece of misogynist jack-off material that I desperately want to share. It’s even more whacked than most of the Gothardian courtship crap floating around in cyberspace.
First of all, a woman can’t be trusted to manage her own affairs. She, like some kind of brainless animal, needs to be fenced into a protected little pasture by her father:
The man can’t be trusted either, because his biological urge is to rape any woman who becomes too intimate with him. In the main, however, men are fit to control women because women are always stupid with emotion and passion, but men are only thus when preparing to rape their dates:
According to this author, the alternative to dating is courtship of a particular type where a man espies a young female and goes to its owner with a bride-price seeking permission to buy the brainless automaton that he may sire children on it – daughters to sell as livestock, and sons to keep him in his old age.
The original owner of the female livestock, who beget her, should be careful to whom he sells her so that his own line isn’t polluted through having his property breed with an inferior stud. The dowry is important, but a man has to think of his reputation as well:
If any man should take a female without the permission of its owner, he not only has to pay a fine, but buy the tainted woman-flesh as well:
If he’s permitted to buy, the man may then dominate his shiny new breeding machine through blood and pain on their wedding night, as the highest prices are always paid for virgins:
This is very important, so that a certain man can stake his claim on the female before she gets uppity and starts thinking she has a right to make determinations about her own life.
First of all, a woman can’t be trusted to manage her own affairs. She, like some kind of brainless animal, needs to be fenced into a protected little pasture by her father:
A woman is left very vulnerable. Without her father's protection, she alone must determine the degree of sexual intimacy, and that in the heat of the moment. Furthermore, there is no commitment beyond the next date; relationships (and thus marriage) are initiated out of a romantic attraction….
The man can’t be trusted either, because his biological urge is to rape any woman who becomes too intimate with him. In the main, however, men are fit to control women because women are always stupid with emotion and passion, but men are only thus when preparing to rape their dates:
The prevalence of date rape proves that it is impossible for a woman to guarantee she can say no, after one hour of introductory intimacy. It ignores the biological facts of human sexuality. Sexual desires are not designed to be started and stopped over and over again!
According to this author, the alternative to dating is courtship of a particular type where a man espies a young female and goes to its owner with a bride-price seeking permission to buy the brainless automaton that he may sire children on it – daughters to sell as livestock, and sons to keep him in his old age.
…being a suitor. A man in presenting his suit, is declaring the justice of his claim for the hand of a woman. Courtship is lawful, dating is lawless.
A man has to be able to present a case to support his claim for the hand of a man's daughter. The importance of this preparation is seen in the biblical principle of the dowry….
To whom does the suitor present his case? The Bible is clear on the role of the father in this matter. The Bible speaks of those who "marry and are given in marriage". It is the role of a father to give away what is his own, even as God the Father brought the first woman to man.
The original owner of the female livestock, who beget her, should be careful to whom he sells her so that his own line isn’t polluted through having his property breed with an inferior stud. The dowry is important, but a man has to think of his reputation as well:
The courtship process provides an opportunity for paternal investigation of the suitor, with particular reference to his godliness, doctrine, worldview, family values, financial responsibility, work ethic. Any man who is irked by such parental care has such a weak view of fatherhood that I wouldn't want him to become the father of my daughter's children, my grandchildren.
If any man should take a female without the permission of its owner, he not only has to pay a fine, but buy the tainted woman-flesh as well:
It is robbing! It robs a woman of her virginity. It robs a man of the inheritance of an unspoiled wife, and robs the institution of the family of its true foundation….
If another man violates that [need to ask a father’s permission] by becoming sexually involved with his daughter, two things happen (Deut 22;28,29), the two should get married and the man must pay the father a dowry. We can learn from this that there is no such thing as sex without responsibility.
If he’s permitted to buy, the man may then dominate his shiny new breeding machine through blood and pain on their wedding night, as the highest prices are always paid for virgins:
The daughter is then to be given as a virgin.
This is very important, so that a certain man can stake his claim on the female before she gets uppity and starts thinking she has a right to make determinations about her own life.
