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Post by deliciousdemon on Apr 21, 2009 12:35:19 GMT -5
I'm a happy gay male who loves gay relationships and gay sex.
How vanilla.
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Post by schizophonic on Apr 21, 2009 14:34:59 GMT -5
Bisexual here, but I haven't really bothered telling anybody in real life. I'm still not sure where I am on the Kinsey scale because I haven't had sex with any girls, and I've learned from experience that what I think would be hot and what I actually enjoy sexually can be quite different. I can empathise on both. First of, I'm very strongly NOYFB (None of your fucking business when it comes to sexuality. I don't ask people if they're gay or advertise my sexuality. The only time it really matters to me is when I'm interested in someone. Though I don't lie if I'm asked. I've also had plenty of sexual situations that seemed up in my head to be good ideas, but didn't really pan out....
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Post by deliciousdemon on Apr 21, 2009 14:43:02 GMT -5
Oooh, do tell. You can make it a hypothetical situation with dramatis personae[/i] if you want. Pwetty pwease?
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Post by Art Vandelay on Apr 21, 2009 17:42:51 GMT -5
Gender neutral pronouns? If I had my way and Chinese was the de facto lingua franca then we'd have them already. So I take it you're not too keen on French pronouns?
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Post by Undecided on Apr 21, 2009 20:53:50 GMT -5
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Nightboomfer
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Post by Nightboomfer on Apr 21, 2009 21:31:30 GMT -5
I'd probably classify myself as pansexual. I'd call myself 50/50 on guys and girls but the number of guys I've been with is double the amount of females so yeah...
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Post by lunalelle on Apr 21, 2009 23:37:28 GMT -5
A complex lesbian. Maybe a lesbian with benefits? I'm not attracted to guys enough to consider myself bi. But I'm interested in sex as a powerplay with men (with the exception of one man who, incidentally, is fictional). No penetration. However, I'm a virgin to everything sexual, so we'll see how my present identity plays out once I get in the playing field.
And as far as gender identity, I seem to appear butch (and occasionally genderfucked, since I shave my head on occasion) while identifying as a woman. However, woman is not my primary identity - I don't get what it means to feel like a man or a woman. I'm just ... a person who seems to have defaulted as woman even though I don't know precisely what that means.
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Post by Sandafluffoid on Apr 22, 2009 12:36:48 GMT -5
Gender neutral pronouns? If I had my way and Chinese was the de facto lingua franca then we'd have them already. So I take it you're not too keen on French pronouns? Well it's not that I'm not keen on them, except having to learn the bloody things, just that when people who blur the gender line get involved it doesn't make for easy grammar. I mean if I were an androgyne I think I'd find the pronoun "it" offensive, but neither "he" nor "she" really fit the bill. As you know it gets worse in French as the word for "it" is the same as the word for "he", and ce or cela just aren't really suitable for human reference.
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Post by caretaker on Apr 22, 2009 13:50:04 GMT -5
Bi, though I guess pansexual would be more apt. I find myself fancying somebody regardless of their gender/orientation etc. I don't lie about it IRL, and my friends know due to some ex-girlfriends, but unless somebody asks me I never really think about it.
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Post by Old Viking on Apr 22, 2009 14:42:57 GMT -5
I'm nostalgicsexual. I remember it fondly.
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Post by tiado on Apr 22, 2009 15:40:13 GMT -5
Gay, though not fully out to everybody yet. I still have to keep in mind where I live, being gay isn't the most welcome thing to be.
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Rubyfruit
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Post by Rubyfruit on Apr 22, 2009 16:04:29 GMT -5
*delurks*
Bisexual here. Taken. It'll be two years on May 13th. I still haven't told my parents 'cause they're Pentecostals.
Hi there!
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Post by Oriet on Apr 22, 2009 17:45:17 GMT -5
Finally calling in. Bisexual, ranging from a 2 to a 5 on the Kinsey scale (reason for this variance is too complex to get into here), as well as MtF transsexual. Like others, even though I say bisexual, I don't care if a person's body aligns to a gender binary or not. I'm also not shy about what I am, at least online; in person I'm hesitant to open up about it, but that's cause I know there can be direct repercussions from doing so and I want to avoid those.
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Post by nyuushin on Apr 22, 2009 18:20:56 GMT -5
I agree with the other few gay males here, how very normal it seems in comparison to others.....lol.... though I find it extremely interesting the mix of sexualities and preferences here. and somewhat surprised by the large amount of bisexuality, though I've always figured (going back to Kinsey here) that most people are bi, ust not willing to admit it to themselves. Fully gay though here! and like McDonald's, definitely loving it.
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Post by Art Vandelay on Apr 22, 2009 19:11:41 GMT -5
Since reading this thread, I'm begining to think that it may be the heterosexuals who are the minority, with most bisexuals unwilling to admit to it.
I wonder if this means we're going to see "straight pride" parades sometime in the future...
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