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Post by wmdkitty on May 27, 2011 5:29:02 GMT -5
Who fucking cares how people live so long as they are all consenting, happy and healthy? I don't care, until it actually effects me personally. Me? I have a hard time maintaining one relationship, so I'll leave the complicated interpersonal polyamory stuff to those who're into it. |
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Post by Vene on May 27, 2011 8:16:41 GMT -5
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Post by Bluefinger on May 27, 2011 8:31:00 GMT -5
Okay, some of the responses amused me greatly. Also, communism! |
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on May 27, 2011 11:47:27 GMT -5
I thought Christianity was all about the poly-ness in the Bible. David and Solomon had them some goddamned harems...even that lying little no-account weasel Jacob had him two wives. But then, it's okay for men to sleep with more than one woman, so polygamy (with or without, ah, 'concubines') is a-okay, just not any form of polyandry. ETA: Chagen, honey, I'm sorry, but over there at least, Poptart SERVED you. |
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Post by Rat Of Steel on May 27, 2011 12:07:38 GMT -5
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Post by Napoleon the Clown on May 27, 2011 12:23:37 GMT -5
Considering your age, I doubt you even know what love is yet. It takes more than 15 years on this Earth to figure shit out. How many years does it take, anyway? I keep trying to figure it out and just can't. I mean, like, I can easily see myself living with my best friend for the rest of my life, pursuing my career while she pursues hers, and, if either of us adopted or she had a kid, being a parent with her, but I don't have romantic feelings for her, and I haven't ever had them for anyone. I would sooner die than have to live without her, but I feel the same way about some of my family members. How much longer do I have to wait until I understand, goddammit?! Ask HK-47. He has a somewhat twisted view on it, but there is wisdom in his words. On a more serious note, love=/=sex. You can love someone without ever desiring to engage in sexual intercourse. Jazzy is happily married and I would assume she loves her husband dearly, yet she's asexual. We can also settle with "love is complicated, but awesome." |
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Post by Vene on May 27, 2011 12:37:51 GMT -5
How many years does it take, anyway? I keep trying to figure it out and just can't. I mean, like, I can easily see myself living with my best friend for the rest of my life, pursuing my career while she pursues hers, and, if either of us adopted or she had a kid, being a parent with her, but I don't have romantic feelings for her, and I haven't ever had them for anyone. I would sooner die than have to live without her, but I feel the same way about some of my family members. How much longer do I have to wait until I understand, goddammit?! Ask HK-47. He has a somewhat twisted view on it, but there is wisdom in his words. On a more serious note, love=/=sex. You can love someone without ever desiring to engage in sexual intercourse. Jazzy is happily married and I would assume she loves her husband wife dearly, yet she's asexual. We can also settle with "love is complicated, but awesome." Emphasis mine, because I fixed your embarrassing mistake. |
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Post by sugarfreejazz on May 27, 2011 14:12:04 GMT -5
So it appears that conservatives aren't allowed here, after all. Love/Care/[insert emotion here] is not a finite resource. [CITATION_NEEDED] It is. You only have a limited amount of time to spend with others. To divide that up between multiple "lovers" is a wasteful allocation of resources, when said time could be used for your own personal benefit and gain. I have a very pragmatic view on life. One must be as efficient as possible. Chagen stop pity whoring to avoid actual discussion points. If you bothered to look around a little you'd know there are conservatives on this board. Secondly stop insulting conservatives by equating them with your ignorance. Just because you say something stupid does not mean other conservatives are, or are as stupid as you. It appears this is a common low-brow tactic of yours. Look I can reverse it. Seems like you won't listen to reason as long as the counter point is from a "dirty liberal." Looks like you really hate liberals. See what I did there? Probably not, but try to keep up anyway. 1) Direct question. Are you able present evidence that polyamory is not a form of actual or real love? 2) Then you wouldn't have love at all, as it isn't efficient to begin with. You're also operating under the ignorant assumption that all individuals want to have X number of resources for their own personal gain or that time isn't shared between multiple people and enjoyed. 3) Diaper fetishes aren't efficient. There's additional costs and effort to play out a fantasy when you could simply put penis in vagina. In your own words, it's "wasteful allocation of resources." You betray your own personal philosophy. 4) Please present a scientifically measured scale of love and the quantity that every individual has available for love. I'd also like some peer reviewed studies on how much love a relationship uses from that initial quantity and contributing factors found to drain this measured love well. |
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Post by John E on May 27, 2011 14:17:01 GMT -5
Did I miss where Chagen is a diaper fetishist?
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Post by sugarfreejazz on May 27, 2011 14:20:26 GMT -5
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Post by Magnizeal on May 27, 2011 14:42:40 GMT -5
How many years does it take, anyway? I keep trying to figure it out and just can't. I mean, like, I can easily see myself living with my best friend for the rest of my life, pursuing my career while she pursues hers, and, if either of us adopted or she had a kid, being a parent with her, but I don't have romantic feelings for her, and I haven't ever had them for anyone. I would sooner die than have to live without her, but I feel the same way about some of my family members. How much longer do I have to wait until I understand, goddammit?! On a more serious note, love=/=sex. You can love someone without ever desiring to engage in sexual intercourse. Jazzy is happily married and I would assume she loves her husband dearly, yet she's asexual. We can also settle with "love is complicated, but awesome." Nappy, for this, I love you. *licks* |
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Post by DeadpanDoubter on May 27, 2011 14:55:46 GMT -5
How many years does it take, anyway? I keep trying to figure it out and just can't. I mean, like, I can easily see myself living with my best friend for the rest of my life, pursuing my career while she pursues hers, and, if either of us adopted or she had a kid, being a parent with her, but I don't have romantic feelings for her, and I haven't ever had them for anyone. I would sooner die than have to live without her, but I feel the same way about some of my family members. How much longer do I have to wait until I understand, goddammit?! Ask HK-47. He has a somewhat twisted view on it, but there is wisdom in his words. On a more serious note, love=/=sex. You can love someone without ever desiring to engage in sexual intercourse. Jazzy is happily married and I would assume she loves her husband dearly, yet she's asexual. We can also settle with "love is complicated, but awesome." ...I had no idea who HK-47 was, and now I'm weirdly happy to know. I'm just saying, you know, I'm not asexual, I'm often rampantly sexual, so I'm assuming any fulfilling romantic relationship I may have would need to have a sexual aspect to it. I mean, I gotta have sex eventually...I guess...and I can't see myself having casual sex. But then...that logic would mean that Ironbite and Jazzy's...wife, I gather, wouldn't be happy. ...humans are weird. |
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Post by ironbite on May 27, 2011 16:57:15 GMT -5
My god he whines a fucking lot. |
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Post by chagen on May 27, 2011 20:08:42 GMT -5
The entire point of IJBM is things that bug you, idiot.
My god, FSTDT is like some unholy circlejerk of Atheists Liberals. It's aggravating as shit. You guys are assholes to the highest degree; why the fuck did I ever like this site, again? It was kinda fun, and then I saw the Radical Atheist Liberal circlejerking. My fucking Jesus. It's sad. Just sad. I had more fun repeatedly hearing my dad call Obama a not-American communist Muslim.
I wanted to seriously become an active member, but fuck that shit. Ban me, I don't give a damn. At least then I can't see the circlejerk and the "attack anyone who isn't a radical socialist atheist liberal" bullshit.
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Post by ironbite on May 27, 2011 20:21:02 GMT -5
Awww how cute. You're really really cute. I can't begin to tell you how cute you are.
Ironbite-I just want to bundle you up and keep you just the way you are.
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