I'd appreciate any help...

[Sleepy]

Sorry for being an attention whore guys, but I have new information and feel like venting.

I got this info from my friend, who got it from the girl my ex is currently dating, and she got it from my ex. She wasn't supposed to tell anyone.

After my boyfriend and I dated for about 2 weeks he started to lose interest in me. But he thought I was too emotionally unstable and that he would hurt me too much by breaking up with me then. So he waited almost 7 months to do it, trying to make our relationship work. That's some logical thinking.

And before he asked me out, he had a crush on this girl (but she had a boyfriend at the time so he couldn't date her), and I think he had this crush while we dated. He's dating her right now.

What I don't get is why he seemed so happy during this relationship with me and told me he loved me and talked about the future. It makes no sense.

[Sandafluffoid]

Apr 3, 2009 17:19:58 GMT -5 Sleepy said:

Sorry for being an attention whore guys, but I have new information and feel like venting.

I got this info from my friend, who got it from the girl my ex is currently dating.

After my boyfriend and I dated for about 2 weeks he started to lose interest in me. But he thought I was too emotionally unstable and that he would hurt me too much by breaking up with me then. So he waited almost 7 months to do it, trying to make our relationship work. That's some logical thinking.

And before he asked me out, he had a crush on this girl (but she had a boyfriend at the time so he couldn't date her), and I think he had this crush while we dated. He's dating her right now.

What I don't get is why he seemed so happy during this relationship with me and told me he loved me and talked about the future. It makes no sense.

Sounds like he just wanted to be liked by everyone, he didn't have the heart to hurt you, so he tried to make it work for as long as he could, maybe he hoped that he could make it work and he wouldn't have to hurt you. Sounds like a classic case of 'too nice for his own good'

[antichrist]

Be glad your free,

If he can't be honest with his emotions at this stage of the game, he'd never be honest with you.

[Sleepy]

Some people I've talked to say the excuse in my previous post is bullcrap. But yeah, I kinda just feel like moving on at this point. Nothing good will come out of dwelling on the issue.